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Message ideas

Below are a selection of thank you message ideas we've used with thoughtful wording and phrases for writing out Bar and Bat Mitzvah thank you cards. Use these as inspiration to get you started!

1. Gifts


Thank you for your good wishes and gifts and for sharing in my Bar / Bat Mitzvah celebrations. Hope you had fun!

2. Memories & Gifts

My family and I would like to thank you for celebrating my Bar / Bat Mitzvah with us and helping to create such special memories. I really appreciate your warm wishes and generous gift.


3. Helping to celebrate


Thank you for helping me celebrate my Bar / Bat Mitzvah.
I greatly appreciate your kind wishes and your generosity.


4. Didn’t attend but sent gift


Thank you so much for thinking of me on my special day and for your thoughtful and generous gift. You were missed, but it was wonderful to know that you were thinking of me as I became a Bar / Bat Mitzvah.

5. Special day

I am so pleased you were able to celebrate with me and my family.  It was such a special day and I hope you enjoyed the celebration as much as I did. Thank you once again.

6. Surprise from overseas

wow, I can't believe you flew from London to attend my Bar / Bat Mitzvah celebration. But I am so glad you did and what a surprise it was when you turned up. Mum kept that quiet as I had no idea. 

7. Friends

I’m glad you were there to celebrate my Bar / Bat Mitzvah with me. It was so much fun! I’m sure we’ll have a wonderful time at your Bar / Bat Mitzvah too. There’s no need to be nervous, I know you’ll do just great! And thank you for the iTunes gift card. I’ve already downloaded many of my favorite songs.



Here are some Bar / Bat Mitzvah thank you card etiquette tips and FAQs you can use to ensure sending your thank you cards goes smoothly.

When should I purchase by Bar / Bat Mitzvah thank you cards?

To simplify things, purchase your thank you cards along with your invitations. This will save you time and stress and leave with one less things to worry about later on.

If you don’t purchase your Bar / Bat Mitzvah thank you cards with your invitations, try to purchase them a week prior to your celebration, so you have time to inscribe and prepare them for after your party.

Try not to wait until after your event to purchase your thank you cards, especially if you’re ordering them online.

When should I send my Bar / Bat Mitzvah thank you cards?

Send your Bar / Bat Mitzvah thank you cards directly after your celebration. The following day is ideal.

Sending your thank you cards soon after party will leave a better impression on friends and family and let them know your really appreciated their love and support.

Is it ever too late to send Bar /Bat Mitzvah thank you cards?

The sooner the better, but if you for some reason could not send your hank you cards out, it’s never too late. If you’re worried about confusing friends and family, just make a short note as to why your thank you cards are late and I’m sure they’ll understand.

Hopefully you found this Bar / Bat Mitzvah thank you card wording suggestions and etiquette tips helpful! Good luck sending your thank you cards! Is there anything you would like to share with us? Just email us here

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